Lisa Niemi, Patrick Swayze’s wife, delivers painful words following his death


In Dirty Dancing, Patrick Swayze, a much-loved performer, captivated the globe with his depiction as Johnny Castle.

People continue to this day to mourn the great and renowned actor Patrick Swayze. He was just 57 when he died of cancer in 2009, yet his legacy continues.

Swayze has a successful career that included nominations for the Golden Globe and Academy Awards as well as a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

Not to mention the fact that his romance with his wife Lisa Niemi sounds like a Hollywood film script.

In Houston, Texas, on August 18, 1952, Patrick Wayne Swayze was born. Parents Patsy and Jesse Swayze raised him and his four siblings.

Father Jesse worked as a chemical plant engineer draftsman, while mother Patsy was the director of the Houston Jazz Ballet Company.

Swayze became interested in dance from an early age. At a dance studio, his mother introduced him to ballet, and soon after, Swayze was hooked.

He was, however, frequently made fun of by his peers due to his love for dancing. Swayze would end up having the last laugh and go on to become one of the greatest and brightest movie stars in history.

Patrick attended Waltrip High School in Houston, and in his yearbook, students referred to him as “Buddy Swayze.” Before he left the school in 1971, he participated in both football and theatre programs.

Swayze had begun to learn ballet by that point. At his mother’s dance studio, he had developed a profound affection for dancing. He had no idea that there he would also run across the love of his life.

At the Houston Jazz Ballet Company, Swayze spent a lot of time. He once encountered a girl in one of his mother’s lessons who he just could not look away from. Lisa Niemi is her name.

Patrick Swayze was a talented dancer before he finished high school. In New York City, he took dancing lessons at the Joffrey Ballet School and the Harkness Ballet School.

As Prince Charming in Disney on Parade, he landed his first role. Soon after, he appeared on Broadway in the original production of Grease as Danny Zuko.

Then, in 1979, Swayze had a brief role in Skatetown U.S.A., which served as his feature film debut. Two years later, he made his television debut in the venerable show MAS*H, playing a soldier battling leukemia. The Outsiders, directed by Francis Ford Coppola, starred him with Matt Dillon in 1983, giving Swayze’s career a needed boost.

Swayze earned the role that would transform his life after appearing in six episodes of the television show North and South, putting him among some of the finest.

Swayze enjoyed tremendous success for his role as dance instructor Johnny Castle in the 1987 film Dirty Dancing. The world has now witnessed many imitations of the legendary dance routines done with Baby (Jennifer Grey). Of course, the music continues to be noteworthy today.

Golden Globe for “Best Original Song – Motion Picture” and an Academy Award for “Best Music, Original Song” went to The Time of My Life.

In contrast, Swayze received a Golden Globe nomination for “Best Performance by an Actor in a Motion Picture – Comedy or Musical.” He did, however, get the highest and most valuable prize for audience popularity.

Swayze received a second Golden Globe nomination in 1990 for his performance as Sam Wheat in the popular film Ghost. Whoopi Goldberg and Demi Moore also appeared in the movie, which went on to make over $500 million worldwide.

Ghost reportedly became the highest-grossing film of 1990 and, at the time of its release, the third-highest-grossing film of all time, according to Box Office Mojo. It is the 93rd-highest grossing movie of all time as of 2015 after being adjusted for inflation.

Lisa Niemi met Swayze for the first time when she was 15 years old. She was taking lessons from Swayze’s mother, but it would take some time before their future romance truly took off.

Patrick realized he couldn’t let her go. She discovered she liked him as time passed. And so they started dating rather quickly.

Over time, Patrick and Lisa formed a strong love. Nobody or anything could separate them. Not even the knowledge that Swayze will soon become a global icon could alter his feelings for her.

The two exchanged vows on June 12 1975. Given how frequently marriages end in divorce in Hollywood, Lisa and Patrick’s relationship stood apart.

The only thing lacking from this storybook relationship was the absence of children for Lisa and Patrick.

Swayze and Niemi had longed to conceive a family ever since they were married. When Lisa learned she was pregnant, they were ecstatic. However, when she miscarried, their delight was replaced with grief.

“It broke his heart. He wanted to be a dad more than anything. He had skills, knowledge, kindness, and love – everything a child would want.”

“I was born to be a dad,” Swayze said.

Lisa became aware as the years went by that she was growing too old to have children. Niemi decided to ask her husband instead whether he thought about adoption.

“I probably should have been better informed about to go about it, but anyway I may have wasted some time. But you know I said ‘you know, how would you feel about adopting?’ He got very teary-eyed and he said ‘I want to have children with you.’”

“Patrick very much wanted to be a father because I think he wanted to be as good a father to his child as his dad had been to him.”

“You could tell he would have been a great dad, Just as an uncle you could see it, you could see the amazing dad he would be.”

Of course, Patrick Swayze’s inability to become a parent was a major setback. But his career kept advancing. In August 1991, he was crowned the “Sexiest Man Alive”. Then, in 1997, for his service to the film business, he received the prestigious distinction of a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame.

The actor’s stellar performances in Ghost and Dirty Dancing propelled him to popularity. He is a balletically athletic performer. The 1990s, meanwhile, weren’t kind to him.

Patrick Swayze went on to feature in movies like City of Joy (1992), Tale Tale (1995), and Black Dog (1998) after his initial triumph.

Swayze, however, changed his acting career after his performances were not well accepted by critics and spectators.

The Dirty Dancing star went to Broadway so that he wouldn’t have to perform only for moviegoers in a theater.

Patrick may have also made a comeback in Dirty Dancing, according to fate. He declined $6 million to make a beloved movie sequel, according to IMDB.

But he didn’t care about fame. The most significant thing to Lisa Niemi and Patrick Swayze was their love for one another. Tragically, their story would come to a sad end.

Late in 2007, Patrick Swayze received a Stage 4 pancreatic cancer diagnosis. The actor told that on New Year’s Eve of 2008, he became aware of changes in his physique. “I dropped nearly 20 pounds in the blink of an eye,” he claimed.

It was one of the hardest things Lisa had ever heard.

“For the first few weeks, it was like being in a nightmare you couldn’t wake up from.”

Dr. George A. Fisher treated Swayze, a lifelong heavy smoker, at Stanford University. It was severe. But Swayze remained a smoker and a worker.

Patrick said to Barbara Walters, “I’ve significantly cut down.” “I was one of those stupid people that started during the Marlborough Man era and thought it was cool. I’ll tell you one thing, though. I’ll make a strong case against children smoking. I’ve never smoked in front of kids for this reason, among others.”

The Beast, a television series, featured him in 13 episodes that were shot over at least 12-hour days.

Swayze’s final project was the 2009 film Velvet Blue. By then, the disease had taken its toll on him. Patrick Swayze died on September 14, 2009, at the age of 57.

The well-known actor was mourned by people all around the world. Many believed that his constant smoking habit was what ultimately killed him.

But his doctor said that wasn’t the case. Instead, he saw Swayze’s survival for as long as two years as “quite an accomplishment.”

Patrick gave his mother a house before he passed away, and his wife Lisa continued to provide her a monthly allowance.

He left his wife a fortune of $40 million. Swayze’s family would once again turn to Lisa in a furious manner when it was claimed that she had sold several of his automobiles and his Dirty Dancing leather jacket on E-Bay.

These items belonged to the family. That she is selling these priceless memories is a smack in the face, according to his niece Danielle Swayze.

When Lisa Niemi married jeweler Albert DePriscan in 2014, whom she met through mutual friends, she described it as “a leap of faith.”

Being in love was something Lisa wasn’t accustomed to, and she suddenly had “a terrible feeling, butterflies, rubbery legs, and diminished mental ability.”

However, she also struggled with her feelings about being married again after Patrick. But she adored Albert, and he is aware of her unwavering devotion to her first spouse.

”Albert knew I still loved Patrick and would always love him, and told me, ‘and I know you love me, and I love you.’ How could I not marry this man?”

On the eleventh anniversary of his passing in September 2020, she sent a touching letter and a lovely photo to Instagram.

“Celebrating a wonderfully strong, sensitive & special man on the 11th anniversary of his passing. So missed. Can’t help but feel a dark cloud today (and all last week!), but grateful for what we had together. What a journey! Blessed, even with the tears”, Lisa wrote.

We will always hold a special place in our hearts for Patrick Swayze. In addition to being a fantastic actor and dancer, he was also a lovely husband and person.

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