I (22F) told my (23M) boyfriend I wanted to get my nipples pierced. When I first mentioned it to my bf, he said as long as it’s a female piercer. I personally don’t care if it male or female, as long as they’re a professional. He’s saying I don’t respect him because it’s my private parts. I’m telling him it’s not like me and the piercer are getting turned on over the piercing. That we are all there for just the piercing. I was confident and sure in what I felt but now I’m starting to second guess myself. I always told him I’d take him into consideration anyway, but it bothers him that I view things differently than him when it comes to this. I need an outsiders
perspective. Thank you